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Archive for March 12th, 2009

How old does a girl have to be before she can get pregnant?

Could a girl get pregnant before she’s even had her first period?

Women stop having babies when they’ve gone through the menopause. The menopause is a time in a woman’s life when her ovaries stop producing a ripe ovum each month and she stops having her menstrual periods. The menopause usually happens between the ages of 45 and 55, although it does happen earlier or later than this for some women.

As. far as we know, the oldest woman who ever had a baby was a 56-year-old grandmother from Glendale, California. Although her periods were coming only once in a while, the woman had not yet gone through the menopause. She had sexual intercourse and, much to her surprise, became pregnant. She gave birth to a normal, healthy baby.

How old does a girl have to be before she can get pregnant?

Could a girl get pregnant before she’s even had her first period?

Once a girl reaches puberty and begins to menstruate and ovulate, she is physically capable of becoming pregnant. It is possible for a girl to get pregnant before she’s had her first period, but it is highly unlikely.

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Another change that happens in a girl’s body during puberty is that the sex organs on the inside of her body begin to develop and grow. The vagina gets longer, until it reaches its adult length of 75-127 mm (3-5 in). This still isn’t very large and as you may recall, the average penis is about 150 mm (6 in) long when it’s erect. But the vagina is very elastic and stretchy, so the penis can easily fit inside when a man and a woman are having sexual intercourse.

The uterus also gets larger during puberty, although even in a grown woman it is only about the size of a clenched fist. It, too, is very elastic and stretchy and can expand to accommodate a growing baby. Indeed, when a woman gives birth, both the uterus and vagina are stretched quite a bit.

The ovaries, the two egg-shaped organs on either side of the uterus, also grow larger during puberty. In grown women, they are about 38-50 mm (1 ½ -2 in) in size.

Just as a boy begins to make sperm in his testicles for the first time during puberty, so girls begin producing the first fully mature ova in their ovaries at this time. But unlike males, who are constantly making new sperm in their bodies, females have all the ova they’ll ever have when they’re born. They don’t make new ova every day. The ova they have when they’re born are not fully mature or ripe, however. The first ovum doesn’t fully ripen and leave the ovary until after a girl has started puberty and begun to develop pubic hair and breasts.

During puberty a girl ovulates for the first time. A ripe ovum leaves her ovary; in fact, it pops right off. This process of a ripe ovum popping off the ovary is called ovulation. As soon as the ovum pops off, the fringed ends of the Fallopian tubes reach out like tiny fingers to grasp the ovum and pull it into the tube. The Fallopian tubes are very tiny, no bigger round than a strand of spaghetti and only about 100 mm (4 in) long. The inside of each Fallopian tube is lined with tiny hairs, which are connected to the muscles in the walls of the tubes. The muscles contract and relax rhythmically. This causes the tiny hairs to sway back and forth and to sweep the ovum along the length of the tube towards the uterus.

If a girl has sexual intercourse at just about the time she releases her first ripe ovum, and if the male has ejaculated sperm into her vagina, it’s possible that one of his sperm could swim through her uterus, into her Fallopian tubes, and meet and fertilize her first ripe ovum. But this doesn’t usually happen. For one thing, most girls ovulate and produce their first ripe ovum when they’re only about 13, and most girls of this age don’t have sexual intercourse.

Even if a girl did have sexual intercourse about the time that she released her first ovum from her ovary, and a sperm met it in the Fallopian tube, the ovum probably wouldn’t be fertilized by the sperm. The first ovum isn’t really a fully mature one. It’s sort of a ‘practice’ ovum. It’s possible for one of these ‘practice’ ova to be fertilized, but it’s very unusual. Usually, then, a girl’s first ovum travels to the uterus without being fertilized. After a few days of floating round inside the uterus, the ovum simply disintegrates.

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One person’s idea of what’s ‘sinful’ or morally wrong may be quite different from another person’s. Nowadays most people do not think masturbation is morally wrong or sinful, and personally, we go along with that point of view. In the past many religions held that masturbation was a sin and, although many religious leaders no longer feel this way, some still do. The Catholic religion’s official point of view is that masturbation is a sin. This doesn’t mean, however, that all Catholics or even all Catholic priests and church leaders feel this way.

People who consider masturbation a sin often point to the story of Onan in the Bible (Genesis 3: 9-10), in which Onan is punished by God for ‘spilling his seed on the ground’. They feel that the story of Onan is a story about masturbation (masturbation used to be called onanism) and that it shows that God disapproves of masturbation. Others don’t feel that this is what the story of Onan is about. People who think masturbation is sinful usually feel that God approves of a man ejaculating only during intercourse with his wife, and that a man should practise enough

self-control so that he ejaculates only under those circumstances.

As we said, what one person thinks is sinful or morally wrong may be different from what another person thinks. It’s an individual matter, something you’ll have to decide for yourself. If you’re bothered by the notion that masturbation may be sinful or morally wrong, perhaps you should talk with your vicar, priest or religious leader.

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As you may recall, the testicles, or testes, rest inside the scrotum. Each testicle is made up of separate compartments. We couldn’t draw small enough to get them all in this picture, but there are about 250 of these little compartments in each testicle. Inside each of these compartments are tiny, thread-like tubes called tubules, which are coiled up and packed tightly. If you unwound all the tubules in your testicles and stretched them out end to end, they’d stretch the length of several football pitches. During puberty a boy begins to make sperm inside these tubules, and he continues to make fresh sperm through the rest of his life. Sperm production slows down a bit in old age, but until then a male makes millions of sperm each day.

Sperm are alive. When they’re fully mature, they look like tadpoles, with rounded bodies and tiny tails. Of course, real sperm are much smaller. In fact, it would take 500 sperm lined up end to end to cover a distance of 25 mm (1 in). You can’t even see a sperm unless you use a microscope.

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Bodies come in all sorts of shapes and sizes: short and tall, thin and plump, narrow and wide, muscular and not so muscular. To some extent you can change the shape of your body by diet and exercise. If you’re thin, you can put on weight. If you’re fat, you can diet so that your body loses some of its fat tissue. If you’d like your body to be more muscular, you can lift weights or work out in a gym once you’ve started puberty. Doing slow, repetitious exercises in which you lift weights or use your muscles to push against a heavy piece of gym equipment will cause your muscles to become thicker and shorter and to bulge out more. (You have to wait until you’ve started puberty, though, because without the hormones your body produces during this time your muscles won’t respond to the exercise.) But remember that you do have a basic body shape that can’t be changed no matter how much or how little you eat or what type of exercise you do.

If you aren’t satisfied with your body and are under- or overweight, perhaps you need to see a doctor and start a diet and exercise programme to help you gain or lose weight. If you are not sure whether you’re under- or overweight, your doctor can help you decide whether your weight is within the normal ranges for your age, height and body build. If you fall within the normal ranges and still aren’t satisfied with the way your body looks, maybe you need to think about where you’ve got these ideas about how your body should look, ideas that are making you feel dissatisfied with the way you do look.

It would be nice if we could all look at our bodies without having to compare them to someone else’s and say, ‘Hey, I like the way I look.’ But we live in a society where there’s a lot of competition among people, companies and even countries. We’re always comparing and competing to see who’s best. So who decides what’s best?

Most of us get our ideas about what’s the ‘best’ or ‘most attractive’ type of male body from the pictures we see in magazines and people on television and in films. Right now these pictures and programmes often show tall men with big, bulging muscles, handsome, regular features, no spots, slim waists, small bottoms and hairy chests. As you may have noticed, not too many men actually look like this.

When we are constantly bombarded with pictures of tall, muscular, handsome men, we can get the feeling that there’s something about our bodies that is somehow not right. If we don’t look like these men, we may be unhappy with the way we do look. After all, if these are the men who are always the heroes in the movies, always getting the girls or being successful, what message does that send to those of us who aren’t tall, muscular or good-looking in that particular way? With all these images of perfect ‘hunks’, it’s easy to start thinking that their bodies actually are better or more attractive. If you feel this way sometimes, it helps to remember that these bodies seem more desirable only because they are in fashion in our particular culture at this particular time. Being in fashion doesn’t make a miniskirt ‘better’ than a knee-length skirt, and being in fashion doesn’t make one body type better than another.

It helps, too, to remember that fashions change and that they vary from culture to culture.

Polynesian king-Most people in our society would find him overweight, yet in his culture he’s considered a fine figure of a man. His huge stomach is taken as a sign of his masculinity. The seventeenth-century German mayor would also be considered a bit chunky by our standards, yet in his own day and age his bulk was considered attractive, a sign of his success and prosperity. The third man is an Englishman from the nineteenth century. His thin, narrow body and lack of muscles make him look rather fragile in comparison to the kind of body now in fashion. Yet then, he was the type of man who had women swooning over him. In fact, back then one of our modern-day hunks might have been considered a real barbarian and not at all attractive.

It also helps to remember that not everyone agrees with or goes along with the fashions of the day. For instance, there are plenty of women who find men with huge “muscles very unattractive. Many women prefer thin men. And for most people, it’s not what kind of body you have but what kind of person you are that really counts.

Learning to appreciate yourself and to like your own body whether or not it matches up to what’s in fashion is a big step in growing up. If you find your own body attractive, other people will too.

Of course, it isn’t always easy to learn to like your own body. Even though most of the boys we talked to were pleased about the fact that their bodies were changing and becoming adult, they sometimes wished that they were taller or wider across the chest, more muscular or more something else. We asked the men we interviewed, ‘Have you ever wished your body were different in some way, and if so, how?’ or ‘What’s the one thing you would most like to change about your body?’ We got many different answers, but two topics came up more than the others, so we’d like to talk a bit about them.

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