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GAMES FOR ABSTINENT COUPLES – GAME 4: THE EXPERIMENT (PART 2)

Each time he says “Not really,” she must accept that without showing emotion. In other words, she must not take it personally if he is not interested, but instead continue in a neutral way, trying to find the spot or method that excites him. By not taking it personally, she will probably be reversing a trend that has gone on in their marriage for some time. However, by overcoming her old feelings, she will both grow and help him to grow as well.

The impasse that has kept this couple uninterested has to do with either a need to be right, a need for an apology (that is, to be paid for suffering), or a desire for revenge (keeping the other at an emotional distance due to unconscious spite). The typical female spouse resists this game by thinking, “Why should I try to excite or give him pleasure when he never cares about me?” This is the core of the impasse—both spouses waiting for the other to come around. All this must be given up when one deliberately tries to excite the partner.

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